Am I A Lesbian?

A lesbian is defined as a woman who is sexually attracted to another woman but people can be attracted to different people especially when they are growing up. Only you can decide if you are a lesbian or not. As you continue to figure it out, here are some things to consider:

• When you are with a girl you are attracted to, does your belly do flip-flops?
• When you hear love songs on the radio, do you think of guys or girls?
• Who do you fantasize about?
• If you have the choice of spending time with a girl you like or a boy you like, which do you choose?
• Who do you enjoy kissing more? Men or women?

Please don't think you have to sleep with someone to figure it out. While sex is a big part of sexual orientation, it is not the only part. Listen also with your heart and your head.

Be easy on yourself. In time you will figure it out. Coming out is one of the hardest things a person will ever do. We encourage you to talk with supportive friends, read books with gay and lesbian characters, attend a gay youth or coming out support group.

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