Am I Gay?

A gay man is defined as a man who is sexually attracted to other men. Are you sexually attracted to other men? What about an emotional attraction? Being gay is more than just a sexual attraction. There is an emotional connection that sets being gay apart from just a same-sex fantasy. It's not unusual for guys to have sexual fantasies about other guys while they are exploring their sexuality. These thoughts are not concrete indicators that they are gay. Only you will know if you are gay or not and this may take time.

See  http://gaylife.about.com

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